How to find and prepare yourself for your true soulmate and Mr. Right in Life

Hello Single Mothers, and true love seekers. I know that you are all tired of looking for that Mr. Right. Some of you have settled for Mr. Almost Right and know in your heart that he is not the one but, you are considering taking that step into matrimony with him anyway because you feel time is ticking along and you are way behind in this game. Others may have missed love but, received a precious gift of live that represents all that love is which is a child. You want for yourself and your child their father to act and step up and be a father and husband, but, it's just not in him so you are seeking what you think is the next best thing. Well I am here to tell you just how to find your soul mate, that Mr. Right your true love your husband -the one who will be there with you thick and thin, love you unconditionally, cherish you and grow old with you.

It starts like anything else, you must prepare for it. In order to gain any thing of benefit you must prepare and plan, do your homework, read, discover, alter, correct, and move forward even if it seems scary. I am a Mother of two beautiful young women of tomorrow and have been married for going on 16 years with my BFF. He is my soulmate, he is the half that makes me complete.

I will share with you just how I found my true love, and some of you may think that its bizzare, crazy, I'm crazy, or what ever, but, I don't care if you judge me or my life and what you think of me does not effect me at all. I am happy, I have two beautiful children, my health, and a man who loves me unconditionally and I feel the exact same way about him.

But, as we all can say, my life did not start out that way. I was in a long relationship for over 13 years with Mr. Wrong. Grew to love his companionship even though the love he gave me was what I call "tough" love. Literally, he drove me crazy at first, with his startling body, (weight lifter) sexy smile, puppy dog eyes and charming silver tounge. I mean the man could tell me the moon was blue and even though I could see with my own eyes it was not blue, I'd start to believe it wholeheartedly and told the world it was blue too! But, after a long battle with him destroying my pride, dignity, self-esteem and credit report, the words my mother spoke came to pass as they developed into angels that fulfilled her desire for me from the love in her heart. She said, I'm just going to say this once about him and you "Susan one day you will wake up and look over at him and you will be finally finished with him and you will walk away." That day came and those exact words she spoke to me came into my reality. But, little did I know that I had been preparing for it from the moment those words left her mouth to my ears and here is where I will share with you how it came to be.

All the time, I was with Mr. Wrong, I started to allow my self the freedom to focus on me while he was off doing his thing. I allowed myself to daydream about my Mr. Right. What he'd be like, how he'd look, what type of man (heart) would he have, what would be his interests? his likes, dislikes, how he felt about God, children, raising a family, etc. Then one day this man approached me (yes while I was still with Mr. Wrong) and asked me to go out for lunch. I did not know much about him other than he was kinda cute, charming and seemed to have a gentleness quality about himself and I though why not? So, I went out to lunch with him. We had stimulating conversation, we laughed, smiled a lot, and had a great time enjoying each others' conversation and the beautiful fall day. As we left the restaurant he reached over and held my hand and I felt a connection - a feeling of genuine love. (I thought) After lunch, we I inquired more about him and found out he was married had children and a wife (not so attractive) which was the words from the grapevine. At that time, I did not think to much of that seeing it was only a lunch between co-workers. But, of course, he asked again and I said yes, and the next time, he laid a kiss upon my lips. Need I tell you that it was good. Simply said, different, but, the conversations we had, the lunches, the laughter, the joy he added to my miserable life began to water what was dried up inside of my heart. So, I put up my fence to protect my heart and let him bring me back to life. It was an unusual affair. We enjoyed pleasuring each other mentally and physically very much. We even spoke about, the "what if one day" thing was to happen. I told him that my heart is not in this, and "if that day" did come, which I would hope it would not, I would not be able to trust you with my heart seeing just what you have done to your wife - only if she knew. After then we stayed on course, just pleasuring each other mentally and physically and he spoke to me from a man's perspective when I do find Mr. Right, what he would like, dislike, etc. It was kinda like he was teaching me how to love again and teaching me what not to allow a man to do to me. Time went on and he often began to speak about the day that we would part, that day when my soulmate (Mr. Right) would show up and how he would miss me. But, my heart was still numb to his love. I'd never let him in to destroy my life and he knew it. He knew how I felt about trust and that was the one thing he could NEVER give to me dispite all the other great things we shared and the great love we made during this time. He often shared his feelings about how he would miss me and our companionship and deep down inside, I am sure he did. He even thanked me often for allowing me to let him love a beautiful woman - one who had beauty in her mind, body and soul. Actually, that I did believe.

Then, that one day came when destiny came to pass. We had to part, because my soul mate, my husband had finally found me and he was worthy of my heart and I gladly, openly gave it to him. All of me. All of myself. I finally found a pair of arms that my heart could pound with in sequence. I had finally found a shoulder I could rest my weary head upon. I finally found a place where I could "exhale" totally and without fear or reserve. I finally found my soulmate. My one and only "True" love. He was all that I dreamt about, he had all of the things I wanted, needed, and some. He was the combination of all the good that Mr. Wrong had, Mr. Almost Right had and what I truly had been searching for all of my life. He was the one and the one that I did not have to hesitate with, over analyze, scrutinize, manipulate, verify, etc. You know how we do. I use to tell my girlfriends, I think he is the one. He has all that I need, he is my icebreaker between these two almosts rights that I had shared so much of my time.

Now, 16 + wonderful, beautiful, years together, and two beautiful, well rounded, disciplined, loving, sincere, noble, great women of tomorrow we are blessed to be raising, we under the name of God, sit on the throne as a family bound together by one blood. One that God looks down on with a smile when he gets tired of all the mess that's going on now in households. One he continues to bless, nurture, and love unconditionally. Our family.

I say this with much confidence because I see the works of his mighty hand upon the hearts of my children, me, my husband our lives. We are growing and changing and developing as he pleases and his will and word never returns void.

So, in sharing this story with you, I hope that you will see or at least identify some of the same things in my life as you see with yours. I hope that you will read this and find out how to prepare yourself for your blessing that is coming sent straight from the Lord Almighty himself. Get ready. Prepare yourself to receive God in your heart and then we can start on our journey of finding your Mr. Right.